A Bridal Professional needs to understand that their perspective is not the same their bridal customer’s.
There is a page in The Bridal Studio that discusses the cost of alterations and what a bride needs to expect to pay. It gives ranges of my pricing formulated over the years of doing bridal alterations in my location. Here I was trying to give a bride some idea of what to expect because most bride have never experienced getting alteration on a garment and having this important garment be her first experience can be traumatic. Click on the button below to see go to: “What is this Going to Cost?” page
Even if this is the first question the bride asks (and it’s highly likely) don’t let it become the focal point that starts your relationship off on a rocky footing. Understand that she has no idea what this is worth and might even have a price already in her head of what she thinks it’s worth.
Setting even a price range is risky. Tell her you need to have a good understanding of what her special gown needs before you can even think of formulating a price but reassure her that if she thinks that resulting price is too much for her budget, she is under no obligation to continue.
A skilled seamstress who has made many garments from scratch all her life does not have the same skill set a seamstress who has many years of alteration experience under her belt. If you are just starting out in a new bridal business, your pricing does need to reflect your inexperience with brides, but you also need to draw on your sewing experience in general and not price yourself too low. It’s a bit of a balancing act to set a good price that reflects your sewing skill but also considers your need to grow in wedding gown knowledge.
I am expensive and worth it.
Some brides get put off by my attitude, but it's simply the truth. I have a collage degree and many years of sewing experience but more importantly, I have 40 years of experience in bridal alterations and bustle design.
My prices here in the rural area of Cincinnati can’t be the same as a downtown salon in New York. It’s a great variance in cost of living so it’s expected that my prices would be somewhat lower than a large metropolitan area. I am a little pricy for my new location, but I don’t feel I need to lower my prices now that I am in the “sticks” instead of a suburb.
I have worked from a home office most of my career. In the times I have worked in a bridal salon, the pricing was much greater because they have so much more overhead to consider and often, a bridal salon will use its alteration department to make profit where other areas of its business is lacking. I don’t consider in-house alteration workers “competition” because the dynamic is so different. They basically are where service and quality of workmanship are in play, but for pricing concerns, I’m more interested in what the lady on the other side of town is charging for the same things I do. I do feel my skill level supports my higher prices, but I still need to be mindful that someone else is out there doing the same work and charging less.
At the first phone call, I believe it’s important to set the tone for your whole journey with a bridal customer. Even if she doesn’t ask (usually she does), I tell her I am expensive and might give her a price range for the average gown, but I also say that her gown and her body are special, and I cannot set a price until I see her in the gown. If she will give me the time for a fitting consultation, I promise to give her a set price for what her unique needs are. If she can’t fit that into her budget, she is under no obligation to move forward.
I do not charge for the first consultation or any subsequent fittings. I usually require 3 sessions, and my pricing system covers my time for these. I don’t often need more, but if I do, I still don’t charge extra. I do not take a deposit and also give a guarantee that the bride will be happy with my work before she pays, or I will do it again until she is happy. I am pleased to say that in my 40 plus years of working with brides, I have never had a bride go down the isle unhappy.
At times, things have come up during the alteration process that mean more unforeseen work for me. I have at times charged more for things like brides gaining or loosing weight, missing appointments that forced me to stay up late the night before the wedding making necessary adjustments, and changes of mind that move the work in a totally unforeseen direction. These things are rare but do happen. It depend on the situation if I feel I need to make a price adjustment. When I do, I make sure the bride understands the change and give it to her in writing. My state, Ohio, has an ordinance that any estimate for work can not be raised more than 10% and that change needs to be in writing, so I am careful to comply.
added March 2010
Hello,
First of all let say that what I am about to ask, I totally understand if you can't answer my question.
I am a seamstress for a bridal shop in Massachusetts, I have been asked to do alterations on a dress that would normally have to be ordered hollow to hem. The dress is discontinued and the bride wants the sample dress, the dress is made for a girl 5' 9" the bride is 4'11". Mermaid style, lace and beads from top to bottom with a train, also the neck line goes straight across and the brides want it to be a sweetheart neckline. There is a piece of lace that goes down the front to a "V" to the hem. Approximately 9" or more would have to come off the dress in order to be the right length, or the dress would have to be reconstructed in order to fit the bride to the right perporations. The lace at the hem is about 6" wide laceand has long peaks. It will be a lot of work to get this to fit her and look right with out it looking like we shrunk the dress to fit!
The owner of the shop said they could do it for $250.00 they gave the job to me but I feel the job will take a lot of time and a lot of work and that $250.00 is very low. I quoted the mother of the bride between $600 to $700 complete and ready to wear for her big day.
Is there any way you can tell me if you agree with me or the owner of the shop? I just tired of doing all this custom work and not getting paid for my work, oh and on top of that I have to give the owner 15% of the price. You don't have to give me a price just tell me if I was right or over charged her.
Thank You,
Bridalwishes ( Lauren )
Hi Lauren,
I have had challenges like this occasionally. The 9" may actually be an asset for making this job easier.
Let me ask a few questions:
Does the "V" lace need to be moved up? Or can the 6" lace be moved and some of the "V" be lost at the bottom?
Is the beading sewn through the under fabric or just on the lace?
Does the bride understand that taking off 9" of this mermaid hem will lessen the swish of the hem and may make it look skimpy?
Will she accept a gathering or pleating between the breast area to create the sweetheart neckline or does she want you to convert the neckline seam to a dip?
What is it about this gown that she likes most? The mermaid style, the lace, the color, the discounted price because it's discontinued? Do you have other gowns that can be ordered and give her the most wished for elements?
What is your relationship with this store? Do you set the prices for alterations or does the store owner? Is this sale dependant on your doing this alteration? i.e. If the store ends up getting stuck with this dress will the owner be upset at you?
The $250 quote sounds low to me. Does she normally quote so low for such extensive work?
Are there also body adjustments that need to be made? Her 4'11" frame could have all kinds of needs in the body area for fitting. Was the bride or Mom shocked by your $600 to $700 quote?
Do you have a picture of the gown? Perhaps a link from the designer's site?
Leanna,
First let me thank you for getting back to me so fast, The bride and the mother would like the dress just like they see it. The lace is beaded right through to the under layer, so it would have to be unbeaded. I figured with the price that the owner gave her I would only work for $4 an hour and that is not even minimum wage.
Thank you
Lauren
You may not have to un-bead anything. The 9" might be enough to simply cut the lace and the fabric it's sewn to and move both up to the new position and reattach it using a dense zigzag. Once the hem is refitted, you simply cut out the backing fabric and you don't have to re-bead anything.
I don't know your situation with this store, but I would never work for $4.00 an hour.
~Lea
added July 2007
Dear Leanna,
I cannot say thank you enough times to express how I feel after reading the info on your website. I am acustom seamstress and clothing designer and I also work with a local pageant/prom shop doing alterations.
Recently the shop approached me wanting to change the way we handle alterations. they would like all alterations to be charged through the store so they can mark up the prices to cover the cost of using the store and also there would be insurance as some of the gowns I alter are $3000+.
Unfortunately in the process they would like for me to come up with a price list or my alterations. They are having a hard time grasping the concept that while I can say a hem would be $35+ I cannot give a specific figure as each gown is unique. Different fabrics, beading, multiple layers etc all come into play. They also recieved a price list from another seamstress that was ridiculously low ($7-15 for a hem) and now they are asking why I charge so much. It's laughable as my hourly rate is between $20-25 and as you've said that does not factor in the time it takes for things like trips to the fabric store, needles, sewing machine maintenance, bookeeping, etc. It is so frustrating!!!
I am going to give her your website to look at so she gets a better understanding. At this point I feel I have the upper hand, I have customers that travel from as far away as Washington DC to Charlotte NC for me to alter their beaded gowns. I also have customers that I sew for all over the country. I've done costumes and gowns that have been at Miss America and on nationally televised TV. I not only sew but I design and I'm good at what I do. I don't like being bullied and that's what I feel they are trying to do. It is extremely frustrating.
Sorry to wane on. Very few people understand the frustration of being undercut by those who sew as a hobby business. Few people understand that what we do is a specialized skill and one we work hard to perfect. I take great pride in what I do and I refuse to appologize for wanting to be payed for my work.
Thank you again for your site. If ever you would like to chat with another seamstress feel free to send me a note. As a side, I also work with renaissance festivals (I direct a childrens theatre troupe) and LOVE bellydancing. While don't have time for lessons right now I would love to eventually take them.
Sincerely and with much appreciation,
Angela
Do not let anyone bully you. I do understand how you feel for I have been there. I have learned how to totally refuse to let myself be manipulated. I work totally separate from the Stores. I carry my own insurance. I set my own prices and if anyone doesn't like it there are plenty of alternatives. They will get cheaper prices that go along with cheaper workmanship. I do get some who whine, trying to get me to match the other people's prices. I just tell them I refuse to lower myself to their level of workmanship. I don't let price be the argument. I have lost work through stores because of this, but it is so much better to be independent.
I do have a price list but it is flexible to each garment needs. It's set for about $30 per hour for each task. I don't charge for fitting times. I make a good amount. I get all the work I want and say, "no" to many callers.
My wedding gown hems start at $80. Many are much more for additional layers and fussy fabrics. Bridesmaid's hems start at $30.
$7 for a hem is just horrible. That's not even minimum wage for the time involved. This is a skilled trade. Plumbers get $90 an hour or more.
You sound like you are experienced enough to be independent and not have to deal with this silliness. Get yourself a business phone line and a yellow pages add. It may take a bit if time for your reputation to get around,but I'm sure you will have all the work you want very quickly.
~Lea
added July 2009
I looked it our Webside today, very informative for the Brides. I got all my skills from my dear Grandmutter in Germany. I am doing Alteration for Bridal Gowns ,since 1983.
Our store closed it 2008. So I am doing some Alterations it home . I would get so much work it Prom time so I stopped doing it. I am in Rochester N.Y. so the Prices on Alterations are a lot more. Maybe you like to updade your Prices a bid.
Have a good Day Heidi
My prices are high for my area. I would not be able to charge what they do in New York. I do update the pricing annually and I keep an eye on what the folks around me charge. It's hard to set prices that are fare for both the brides and me.
~Lea
added July 2008
Hi, Leanna,
I have been sewing since the 8th grade and start a sewing business in 1996. One of the problems that I have is deciding on the price that I should start off with for Wedding dresses. I am told that my prices are too Low. I compare them to other seamstress and they do appear too low, but I am not sure what my minimum price should be for a wedding gown. Do I price
according to the style of the gown, such as if I am doing an a-line halter top gown, no beading, no lace out of satin.
I live in a medium to a large size city and the pricing for the retail stores such as David’s Bridal is rather low, I do understand that retail and custom are different. How do I get my customer to understand the difference as to why custom cost more than retail? I have tried charging by the hour as well as charging by the garment and I am still not making what I should be making based on my experience. Do
You have any suggestion or ideas that you can give me? I am in the Austin, Texas area.
Look forward to hearing from you. I love your website and refer to it often
For advice.
Thank you,
Barbara
I no longer make garments from scratch because in my area it's just not going to pay me what I want. I do strictly alterations now because I can charge what I need to. I am way more expensive than many others in my area.
In town and I still get as much work as I want. I say "no" to many callers. When you have the reputation for doing excellent work and have been in the same location for the word to get out about you, you do not have to explain anything to anyone.
~Lea
added January 2008
I work in the school system but do alterations on the side. I am in the process of altering a wedding gown and have no idea what to charge. Can you help me?
This is what I have done so far: took up the shoulders 3” on each side, changed the neckline from scoop-neck to v-neck, added 21/2” inset in each side seam to expand bodice 5 inches. Hand sewn 23 lace appliqués to front, back, sides and both sleeves. I still have to shorten the hem 4 inches, add 10 yards of lace and bustle the back. Can you give me a fair estimate of what it should cost to do these alterations? I want to be fair, but also want to get paid for my time.
Sincerely, Gwen
Wow, that's a lot of work! I just finished a gown that had almost that much work, minus the insets, and it was almost $400. Do you have any idea how many hours you have in this job? Any seamstress with good skills should be getting at least $20 and hour in my humble opinion. I charge $30 and hour. I seriously doubt I would do this job for less than $600. Did you give her any kind of estimate for this work?
No. She didn’t ask. So far about 10 hours.
Gwen
Gee, you are fast.
You need to be giving her an idea of what the work has come to so far. If you wait till the end she can give you one horrendous fight about what you are asking and refuse to pay it. She can claim you never told her you were expecting payment too. $200 to $300 for what you have done so far is reasonable.
~Lea
added July 2007
Leanna,
I just found your website. I have been altering bridal dresses for several years now. There have been several times that brides have "out grown" their gowns and needed altering. Seams could not be let out enough so I removed the zippers and created the lace-up closures. It takes somewhere around 4-5 hours to do this. What do you think is a fair price to charge?
After reviewing your price page, I realize I have been undercharging by about 66% on everything that I do!
Vicki
Franklin KY
The 2 dresses I have pictured with lace-up backs were very different. One was quite easy (about 2 hours of work), while the other drove me nuts. I charged about $80 for each because it was a learning process. The next one that walks in the door will be at least $100, and I'm going to look at the inside of the gown much more closely before I quote a price.
I usually gear my pricing on $30 an hour, adding on for fussy fabric and complicated construction. This is the high end of typical for the city I am in. Some places couldn't handle that much and some places it would be low. There are many factors in pricing, including the skill level of the sewist. I don't like giving out my prices because the person asking might not have the same experience level of my business and is there for not worth what I would charge. That said, most ladies who are sewing for profit are not charging any where near enough for their skills. Sewing is a skilled profession that needs to be respected just like plumbing and carpentry. Those professions charge hourly rates that can make you cry.
No matter what level you are at, putting a price on your work is not easy. You want to be fare to your customer and also make a profit for yourself. When it doesn't work out that I make a profit, I chalk it up as a learning experience and move on to price that item better the next time I get one.
~Lea