You can use a Ballroom design but you can not match the dresses on my site exactly. You need to set your bustle rigging where they need to be for your height with your shoes. Your decoration is very different than the dresses in my pictures too. The lady doing your bustle should set the design to show off your train decoration the best way she can. I do think a French bustle would not look very good for your train decoration placement though.
~Lea